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So what's been shaking? I know that it has been awhile (My apologies). Toni Raye has to have some type of balance before she can even attempt to do something out here...ya dig!?!? Anyways, lets get right into it....So out of the few emails that I have gotten one has actually stuck out to enough for me to tell you all about it. Well, this lady wrote me asking my opinion on how to go about revealing to him her pregnancy. The catch to it is she is not sure whether or not the baby is his! Now, this is a man with whom she really cares about and can see herself spending the rest of her life with him. She wrote that she knows for a fact that he will leave her and she is really considering not telling him the affair she had. Then at the end of this detailed emailed she imposed the question "What should I do?".......
Now all I can say to that is wow! Look, I ain't the one to judge. The longer you wait the more complicted shit becomes....trust me. This situation didn't have to even get to this point. There are drugs available for you such as the day after pill. I am not recommending this is in no way but abortion could be an option. Obviously you weren't using protection, so you also need to get tested. There is no playbook for situations like this but once you decide on whether or not you will keep this baby then you can contemplate on telling your man about the situation. If your coming clean means that it will do more harm than good, don't tell ONLY if you learned your lesson. Life goes on regardless ya dig?!?!
What do ya'll think? Just post a comment or shoot me an email at tonirayeblog@gmail.com
Anyways, I got moves to make . Until next time, stay beautiful...muah!!!
2 comments:
Girrrrrllllll!!!! If she chooses to keep the child, she most definitly need to tell him. We don't want another Murray episode, ya know? If she doesn't, she should keep all of it to herself...sometimes things like that is hard to live with but that way she can be somewhat drama free. But then again, what if something happens to her during the process if she chooses to terminate the pregnancy? There alot of things to consider here and I can go on and on, but i wish the best of luck for her!
She needs to get her shit together
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