Relationships

Wasup Ya'll,

So I had a conversation over with some friends earlier this week. Somehow we got into a discussion about relationships. Now I don't know about you all but this is a subject that I hate to discuss and for those of you who know me, I am an EXTREMELY blunt individual. First of all if any of you have actually lived in this world you would know when a person is playing games with you. If you can't recognize the signs then you need to check yourself. People wake up!!! There are far too many things that you can be doing with your life than wondering whether or not a person loves you because if you have to wonder, then you need to move on!! I have come to realize that there are no gray areas in life. Wherever there is a gray area, there are chances to make excuses. If you feel differently I can respect that but it has worked for me and I am doing just fine by it if I must say. So with that said let me give you some pointers on whether or not it might be time to move on to the next person or just take some time off to get your shit together......

#1. If you and the person aren't making any moves together (i.e. buying a house, paying bills, or if you guys aren't currently in the process of making it happen) then be ready to walk away from the situation at ALL costs!!!

****Sorry hunny emotions can sustain but so much in a relationship. Think about it this way: If the fool is cheating on you then at least you won't have to worry about losing that gwap in the process of dropping that lame!!!!

#2. If you have been "together" for a substantial amount of time and he/she hasn't introduced you to those that he/she holds dear to them, you need to check the situation.

****You learn alot about a person by just observing the people that raised them or who they grew up with. It kinda completes the picture...ya dig?! If your so called significant other doesn't do this then you need to reevaluate your situation-trust me...either the person is ashamed of you or she/he doen't see a future in yall's ecapades. That's just the way it is.

#3. If your partner all of a sudden stops calling you for no aparent reason, then let that shit go!!!

****Refer to #1


This really goes out ot all of the ladies- for real. I'm sick and tired of talking to my homegirls about bout their no good men. Ya'll tend to overlook the "signs" and wanna cry when it all falls down. I grew up in a neighborhood were there more hood men than anything else. I have witnessed men treat CHICS like dirt and I have seen them treat WOMEN like queens. There is a difference between the two...get me? We as women have to fully realize that what we have between our legs holds the key to the future of the world. Feel me?

If you feel differently, then shoot me an email. If you make sense, I can only respect it. If not, I will dog you in the next post.

Until next time, stay beautiful...muah!!!